No need to stress over what to get this Christmas for the in-laws. This list has 21 great ideas for Christmas gifts for boyfriend’s family that they’re sure to gush over.
Are you stressing over what to get your boyfriend’s parents and his siblings?
Well, relax, there’s nothing to worry about. You’re in good hands. This gift guide has no hard or fast rules just lots of really interesting gifts that are safe options for his family to love you over.
Sometimes there is no answer to the perfect Christmas gift but if you have a say, make it a good effort and a good impression if it’s the first time you’re spending it with them.
And while we wish that some of the best gifts were just being present, sometimes it really isn’t … plus, five Christmases from now you can pull that stunt.
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Table of Adventures
Gift Card
A perfect gift for a budding relationship and you have no idea what to get his parents. It’s inoffensive and can be used however they wish.
Don’t try to impress with putting a lot of money on it if you can’t afford it – $50 is good enough to say hi, I exist and I’m hopefully here to stay.
Throw Blanket
I am personally that person who loves to cuddle up in bed, on the couch, outside in the backyard, and curl up with a large throw blanket. Make it great by buying something specific to the holiday season or something that they can really cherish for a long time.
This is something that can be made by hand if you’ve got the skills and time to do it.
Coffee Mugs
It’s really hard to go wrong with a mug (or even teacups). This little item can easily be paired with multiple things on this list and it would still be a lovely gift to give. Pro-tip: buy mugs based on the amount of coffee or tea the person being gifted drinks.
I would even go far as to buying them one of those mug warmers if they’re slow drinkers (like me).
Digital Photo Frame (or Photo Book)
Oh, this is perfect as a sentimental gift to his entire family. You most likely won’t have cherished photos of his parents if you’re within the first year or two of the relationship, but if you ask him to grab some, you could digitize some and place them inside of the photo frame.
If you can’t finagle that compiling photos of your boyfriend over the years can really be perfect for a family that misses their son as he lives away from home. Another option could be piecing together a photo book of any adventures you all have had together – like day and weekend trips for starters.
Gift Basket
I actually enjoy using baskets for seasonal purposes. So if your boyfriend has a family that is big on decorating (or just because it’s hard to figure out what to get them) let a gift basket play double-duty.
Of course, for me, that means getting a wicker basket-style gift basket rather than anything else, but do what works for you in this scenario.
There’s something out there for everyone: foodies, luxury, homemakers, etc. so you’ll have the run-of-the-mill of baskets to grab.
Personalized Gift
As one of many incredibly thoughtful gifts to his family, a personalized gift really shows that you didn’t just run to the store at the last minute to grab something for them. There are plenty of ideas to latch on to – obviously taking into account the things that matter to them in life or things they’ve expressed wanting.
Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Pro-Tip: Shop early to avoid shipping and supply chain issues.
Essential Oils
This is the perfect gift for a family that is eco-conscious. You can buy a gift basket or do something more DIY that they’d really love, too. It helps you to control the creation of the product and that can be really precious to someone who enjoys homemade gifts.
You could even get them a shirt that pays homage to their love of essential oils if they’ve got enough to create with for years.
Beautiful Vase
If your boyfriend has members of his immediate family that love flowers or are into gardening, an ornate vase can be a wonderful idea.
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Spa Day Kit (with Bath Bombs!)
It’s really hard to go wrong with a kit meant to celebrate self-care. You can always buy this or put it together as a gift basket. It’s easier to grab bits and bobs and place them together in addition to a pre-made basket though so there is that. Do what works for the person you’re giving this to.
Could be a really great way to get into the good graces of your future mother-in-law.
Funny Gift
If his family is a bunch of jokesters, the lewder the better, to be honest, getting a funny gift is an absolute no-brainer.
Wine Decanter and Bottle of Wine
Listen, if someone got me a bottle of wine and a decanter I would be enthused. I don’t even drink wine like that but there’s something so fun about having the wine I do drink taste the way the vintner intended it to taste like.
Fresh Pair of Slippers
If your boyfriend’s mother or anyone you gift this to doesn’t appreciate this gift I don’t know what to tell you! Because this is great! Who doesn’t love the feeling of brand new bedroom slippers? It screams luxury in lowercase letters. Brilliant.
Throw in a robe and you’re set to become the child they wish they had. 😂
Pint Glass
Does his family drink a lot? Then a pint glass is a good fixture to give them. Personalize it and you’ll be set.
In our house, we have a bottle cap shadow box that you could also add to that gift, too.
Monthly Subscription
Hitting up the family with a monthly subscription can be a great idea to show your boyfriend’s family some much-needed love.
There are so many things on the market that are easy to get in a subscription form. From perfume to food kits to pet subscriptions there truly is something for everyone.
Don’t buy things you can’t afford to save face. If they won’t like you because you didn’t get them a $500 watch for the holidays them not liking you is not on you, but wholly on their inability to see past the material.
Custom Doormat
I love a really interesting doormat. I actually want to own a doormat that says my last name on it once I’m married with some kids, but until that day I can find hilarious doormats for every season.
And boy do I love changing doormats for the season, y’all.
This can be a really nice gift if your future-in-laws don’t have one, theirs is destroyed, or they’re in the market for a new one as it’s no longer appealing.
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Tote Bag
Has his mom or sister made a mention that they’re looking for something new to carry items in? How about a tote bag?
They come in a variety of sizes, colors, and styles that there is bound to be something out there for them that they’d like. And when in doubt go for neutral colors and styles so that it doesn’t just end up at the back of their closet collecting dust.
Beauty Advent Calendar
Does your boyfriend have a sibling (or maybe it’s mom or dad?) that is very into makeup? This one is a little unconventional, but can be especially fun for the makeup lover in his family.
Plus, it’ll be on the list of the most unique gifts someone will ever receive since it’s an all-month affair.
Gifting an early Christmas present of the best beauty advent calendar would be glorious as they get gifted for 24 days straight in the month of December! Remember to grab them early and to let them know to open it on December 1st instead of on December 25th.
Coffee Table Book
Finding a great coffee table book for a living room can be a feat, especially in the space you’re in. You wouldn’t put a modern book in a traditional home and you wouldn’t necessarily put a book on dogs in a home with a cat lover (who dislikes dogs I might add).
Since these books are great conversation pieces making sure that they are adding value to the home is important. Take into account their personality, their style, and interest that they won’t ever stop talking about.
Good Laugh
Gifting his family the gift of a good laugh is really great. Tickets to see a comedy show or a hilarious Broadway play could be just the pill they’re willing to swallow if they’re up for it.
Gauge your audience as your boyfriend’s hyper-religious family may not find it funny to go to a comedy show where the comic curses like a sailor. The same can be said of a family that literally doesn’t find anything funny so maybe press pause on that play, too.
Be smart here! But this could be soooo good.
Quality Time
If you’ve known the family for a long time at this point and have the funds maybe treat his family to some much-needed quality time.
It could be a day trip to a museum, a weekend trip down the coast, or a week trip overseas. Whatever it is, it shows how thoughtful you are and will continue to be in their son’s life. This can be a great present to gift the whole family, too.
You could even surprise them with a gift to a service that will plan out days for them in an unknown place (and they find out days prior what to pack and when to arrive at the airport) and you can watch them live out their dreams.
Good Books
Last, but certainly not least, gifting books is such a great way to connect with family members you’re meeting or have a great rapport with. Of course, this is the ideal gift for the bookworm in the house.
They’re such a timeless gift and if given the right book can spur conversations later on down the road about what they thought of it and book recommendations for later.
Best Christmas Gifts for Your Partner’s Parents
Hopefully, you’re becoming part of the family. This is a fantastic time of year to be seen as gracious, kind, and thoughtful with special gifts that have your own personal touch to them.
Even if you didn’t find the perfect choice on this list for your boyfriend’s family you will have picked the perfect present, whatever that may be.
Remember there are different ways to gift your boyfriend’s parents. It’s the perfect season to cook for them or help decorate. Happy holidays!
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